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Out of Bounds

  • Writer: Rosee-T
    Rosee-T
  • Jan 29, 2023
  • 3 min read

Our joy knew no bounds when my husband received his first "acting assignment". We moved in to the Chulsa Burra Bungalow in the winter of 1997-98. The icing on the cake was that the Chulsa Polo Club (CPC) was within the Chulsa Tea Estate. I felt a bit guilty but it was after all my husband, Akhil who had encouraged me and thus had begun my love affair – with the game of golf.


My precious golf set

I would burst with life in the joy of driving past the lush green tea estates, my hands on the steering wheel of the Omni van – my mind enjoying the heady drive through the slopes of the tea factory crossing the creek through the freshly white-washed culvert. At first, I enjoyed my practice sessions alone. And then, destiny played its hand. Vaneet found his life partner Reshma and I now had her company to hone our golfing skills.


Soon, it became a ritual to pick Reshma up and head down the slope to the club to practice our golf shots. Naresh, the caddy had been entrusted with the task of coaching the memsaabs – a task he took seriously. “Sar neeche rakhna membsaab,” he would advise. “Follow through pura karna,” he would even reprimand us. We tweaked each swing following his directions and one after another, hit about 50 shots. We savoured a well-deserved swig of water while the chhokra retrieved the balls from the other end. The exercise continued.

Chulsa Polo Clubhouse

One January morning, we stood on the fairway, allowing the glistening sun to seep into our bones. There was a thrill in exerting ourselves to a new level. Despite the monotony, the repeated whacks of the golf balls infected us with warm, tingling happiness. The brilliant blue sky, vast open greens, chirping birds and us with our golf clubs and balls. It felt like freedom.


As we waited for the chhokras to retrieve the ball, we spotted three figures approaching towards us. As they emerged, we recognized the three assistants Vaneet, Afreen and Anirban who had parked their bikes in the VP nursery adjacent to the club. We now had not one, but four coaches imparting their golf expertise. “Loosen the left grip,” Vaneet said. “The ‘V’ of the thumb should point towards the inner right shoulder,” Anirban added. We continued the practice and could see the theory lessons making a difference in our game.

Practice swing

“Okay ma’am, a few more long drives,” said Afreen. “You have to keep looking at the tee even after striking the ball,” they instructed. After admiring the flight of the ball, we looked towards our trainers but lo and behold! To our amusement, they had vanished into thin air as if they were never there.


We cupped our palms and held them over our forehead against the radiant Monday morning sun. There was no sign of them. As we continued our visual search, we noticed a rising vortex of dust in the previously stagnant air. Sure enough, the three had managed to reappear at the VP nursery within the duration of a single swing.


Reshma and I looked at each other, both perplexed. We turned to Naresh. Nonchalantly, he pointed towards the blue gypsy passing by and said, “bada saab.


A recent photo of Naresh, the caddy
 

Glossary:

Acting assignment: First assignment as estate manager

Chhokra: Young lad

Long drives: A type of golf shot

Swing: Action of hitting the golf ball

VP nursery: Vegetative propagation nursery

Bada saab: Estate Manager

Sar neeche rakhna membsaab: Keep looking down, ma'am

Follow through pura karna: Complete the follow-through



28 Comments


majumdar.ani
majumdar.ani
Feb 11, 2023

How well narrated - that's why we all love your Blogs 😍!! I remember the happy moments of golfing with Team Chulsa !!


`Bada Saab' in Tea had always been a father figure and was on a different pedestal of respect and command altogether - and Mr.Tiwari fitted in the role perfectly. And the spirit of camaraderie which planters (as Assistants) share, is not always seen among executives elsewhere!!


Thank you for taking me down memory lane !!

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Rosee-T
Rosee-T
Feb 14, 2023
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Thank you Anirban for your comments..means a lot to me ..that you love reading my blogs ...and you are absolutely right about the camaraderie shared by the planters..Even I enjoy visiting those times while writing or even otherwise..

Keep motivating..

Health and Happiness to you all..

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sumanghai75
sumanghai75
Feb 02, 2023

Another lovely blog Nandita..which I can relate to.Sanjay was posted at Chalouni T.G for long acting ..Chulsa polo club was close by ! Every Wednesday and Sunday Golf was must ..many foursome's played happily, I also showed interest and Vaneet taught me many tricks for a player learning golf..Gradullymy game improved n I won DLGU Novices n beginners.toutnament

Confidence increased and once I was part of Pagla golf tournament at western Dooars n our team of three won because of my accurate putting to everyone's surprise I played ,Divouce cup n many other tournaments later. I remember you played excellent golf iat western Dooars.Thanks to Akhil's encouragement encouraging game of golf for his dear wife.Setting out for the…

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Rosee-T
Rosee-T
Feb 06, 2023
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Thank you Suman for your detailed comments on the blog of golf ...it set the nostalgic memories rolling out and I could not help myself travelling back to those days..

Your keen observation on my radiant face on winning golf is so well described that you can soon start a blog of your own. And yes I was very passionate about golf once upon a time ...

I vividly remember you winning the novice and beginners prize in DLGU..and playing an awesome game...

Would love to catch up a round of golf with you Suman..

Ever so grateful for your lovely words..

Health and Happiness to you all..


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Guest
Jan 30, 2023

Hi Nandita,

Good to know that your love affair for golf began at CPC ,a club that Swapan and I had been closely associated with. I remember Naresh being a regular face and a popular caddy with the sahabs.

Thanks for the enjoyable write up. It brought back memories.

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Rosee-T
Rosee-T
Feb 02, 2023
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Thank you Kalyani ..I am happy that you enjoyed the write -up and it rekindled your memories..Yes till today Chulsa golf course remains my favourite..inspite of having played in many other professional golf Courses...

It is so nostalgic...it seems like just the other day when even Swapan..

Mr.Prem Singh and Mr Khalid stood there imparting their skills of golfing...

They would even say ..that it is only later you will realise the value of Chulsa Club and our coaching..How absolutely right they were ..if I may add...

"Those were the days "...

Happy Golfing to you ..enjoy ..

Health and Happiness ti you and your family...

Regards

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vvanita25
Jan 30, 2023

Nice anecdotes .. you always share Nandita!👌👌

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Rosee-T
Rosee-T
Feb 02, 2023
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Thank you Vanita..I am so happy that you enjoy reading these ancedotes...

Health and Happiness to you all...

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tan.fran10
tan.fran10
Jan 30, 2023

It must have been quite amusing for you two ladies to witness this vanishing act of the three musketeers… I can imagine 😃and to see them as serious Bara sahibs themselves now… I will definitely bring this up with Anirban. Enjoyed reading and visualising the story 👍🏻👏👏👏

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Rosee-T
Rosee-T
Feb 01, 2023
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Thank you Tanu..I love the way you always get back to me with your feedback on my writings..most of the time full of appreciation and at times even telling me that you couldn't connect...that's what I like all the more ...your honesty..

I am so happy you liked this ancedote...

please do keep motivating.

Health and happiness to you all..

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